Paths are different. Comparing yourself to the other would only bring confusion, bitterness and frustration: hindrance Why don't we seek the will of God for our lives and follow as we trust the process? The one who manufactures a product is the best to consult about the product abi? Every "work" that is needed to be worked in the walk of the process must be worked! the experience of my friends could be easier.the walk of the other may be "smoother,"but I will work my own. And I will get to my own "there"too, I got here from there.I will get there from here! it is very beautiful ahead!