This hit song came from my experience whiles dating some years back . Although it was painful but it really helped me a lot to discover what I really needed and wanted in life . We all have been through one or two things in life that have changed us all , so for good and some for bad ; but I choose to be with positive no matter what. Such is life so we gotto face it. What does kill does makes you stronger. Keep pushing and keep your head up charley.