Curious Minds Podcast

Pornography is more accessible than ever in the digital age, with young people often encountering explicit content online at an early age. While some view pornography as a tool for exploring sexuality and pleasure, its widespread availability has sparked significant debate about its impact on perceptions of sex, intimacy, and relationships.
For many young people, pornography serves as an early and often unfiltered introduction to sexual behaviour. However, it frequently presents an unrealistic portrayal of sexual encounters, focusing on exaggerated performances and unattainable physical ideals. These portrayals can shape expectations about how sex should look and feel, influencing individuals' self-esteem, body image, and interactions with partners.
In real-life relationships, the influence of pornography may lead to dissatisfaction, distorted expectations, and challenges in achieving emotional intimacy. Furthermore, the lack of emphasis on consent, communication, and mutual respect in many forms of explicit content contributes to harmful misconceptions about healthy sexual relationships.
In this episode, we delve into these issues, examining both the potential benefits and the significant risks of pornography consumption. By addressing how pornography shapes sexual expectations and behaviour, the episode encourages young people to develop a healthier, more realistic understanding of intimacy and relationships.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panelists: Prince, Margaret, Jemima, Hannatu, Ralph, Ransford, Kenneth, Enoch, Michael and Edmund.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music
Intro - The Curious Ring
Interlude Music -  Fallen Angel by Smallgod feat. Black Sherif
Closing Music - Twa Wonan Ase by NiiQuaye feat. Kirani Ayat &amp; Pure Akan

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The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Expectations and Relationships

Consent is a cornerstone of healthy sexual relationships, defined by mutual agreement, free will, and clear communication between all parties involved. Yet, the distinction between genuine consent and coercion can often become blurred, especially in complex scenarios influenced by power dynamics, cultural expectations, or emotional manipulation. Coercion involves using pressure, threats, guilt, or manipulation to obtain consent, making it neither free nor enthusiastic.

Many individuals, particularly young people, may not fully recognize when consent transitions into coercion. This is often due to a lack of education about consent, societal norms that trivialize manipulation, or personal experiences where coercion is normalized. For example, subtle tactics like guilt-tripping a partner into saying &quot;yes&quot; or using authority to influence decisions can undermine autonomy, even if explicit verbal consent is given.

Understanding these nuances is critical to fostering healthy, respectful relationships and ensuring that all parties feel empowered and respected in their choices. In this episode of the Curious Minds podcast, we unpack these complexities, providing listeners with the tools to identify coercive behaviour, set boundaries, and advocate for enthusiastic, mutual consent in all aspects of sexual and reproductive health.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Edmund, Margaret, Jemima, Hannatu, Ralph, Ransford, Kenneth, Prince, Enoch, and Jemaimah.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music
Intro - The Curious Ring
Interlude Music - Killi Ni by Cina Soul
Closing Music - Excellent by KOJO BLAK &amp; Kelvyn Boy

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Consent vs Coercion: Where Do the Lines Get Blurry?

Abortion is a deeply divisive issue in many societies, including Ghana, where strong cultural and religious beliefs often influence public perceptions. Ghanaian law permits abortion under specific conditions, such as when a pregnancy endangers the mother’s life, is the result of rape or incest, or poses significant risks to the foetus. However, many people are unaware of these provisions, leading to widespread misconceptions that abortion is outright illegal.

This lack of awareness fuels stigma and prevents women from seeking safe and legal procedures. Instead, many turn to unsafe abortions carried out by untrained providers or under unhygienic conditions, often resulting in severe health complications or death. According to the Ghana Health Service, unsafe abortions remain one of the leading causes of maternal mortality in the country, highlighting the urgent need for better education and access to reproductive health services.

In this episode, we address the gap between the law and public understanding, exploring why unsafe abortions persist despite the legal framework for safe procedures. The episode also examines the societal, cultural, and systemic barriers that prevent women from accessing safe abortion care and the role of education and advocacy in reducing the prevalence of unsafe practices.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Edmund, Margaret, Jemima, Hannatu, Ralph, Prince, Enoch, and Jemaimah.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Kwakwa by Hammer Of The Last Two and Kwaw Kese
 Closing Music - We No Go Gree by worlasi


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The Legality of Abortion in Ghana and the Scary Truth About Unsafe Abortions

For many, the idea of "safe sex" centres primarily on physical protection against unintended pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), often emphasising condom use as the main preventative measure. However, true sexual safety goes far beyond just physical health; it includes emotional readiness, mental well-being, and relational respect. These aspects are equally crucial, as situations without these foundational elements can create a space where sex is emotionally or mentally unsafe, even if physical protection is in place.
Factors like consent, communication, mutual respect, and power dynamics all play a role in determining when sexual interactions are truly safe and healthy for everyone involved. Unfortunately, the emotional and mental dimensions of sexual safety are often underemphasised in traditional sex education, leading to misunderstandings about what "safe sex" really entails. 
In this episode, we unpack these elements and provide a well-rounded understanding of sexual safety, encouraging listeners to approach their intimate experiences with awareness and care.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Samuel, Hannatu, Jemima, Kenneth, Ransford, Charles, Francisca, Nii Narh, Prince and King James,
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Perfection by Worlasi
 Closing Music - Princess by Joey B


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Beyond Condoms: When Does Sex Become Unsafe?

Sexual harassment and assault often bring to mind extreme or violent acts, but many behaviours that violate personal boundaries occur daily and are normalised within societal and cultural contexts. These actions such as catcalling, unsolicited sexual advances, inappropriate touching, or derogatory comments, are frequently dismissed as "harmless" or a “normal” part of interactions, especially in public spaces. However, these behaviours perpetuate a culture where personal boundaries are ignored, and consent is trivialized.

The normalisation of these actions is deeply rooted in societal structures, including gender inequality, power dynamics, and cultural attitudes that excuse or overlook such violations. Victims often feel powerless to speak out due to fear of being ignored, judged, or blamed. This silence allows these behaviours to persist, creating environments where individuals, particularly women and marginalised groups, feel unsafe and undervalued.

This episode shines light on the pervasive issue of normalised sexual harassment and assault, examining how cultural acceptance enables these behaviors and exploring strategies for challenging and dismantling this harmful culture.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Jemima, Margaret, Hannatu, Ralph, Kenneth, Enoch, Jemaimah and Michael.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring
 Bridge - Fefe Na Efe by Fela Kuti


 Interlude Music - Child Abuse (Refix) by Tulenkey feat. Medikal
 Closing Music - Invisible by M.anifest


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The Everyday Reality of Normalised Sexual Harassment and Assault

In many social contexts, unintended pregnancies are viewed with a unique urgency and stigma that often outweigh concerns about sexually transmitted infections (STIs). For young people, the fear of an unplanned pregnancy can feel more immediate and life-altering than the possibility of contracting an STI, even though STIs can have serious, sometimes life-long, health impacts if untreated. Pregnancy is often seen as a visible and tangible consequence with immediate social, financial, and emotional implications, while STIs, especially those without immediate symptoms, are less visible and therefore more easily overlooked.

Societal and cultural expectations play a significant role in shaping this perception. Pregnancy often comes with social consequences that impact educational and career opportunities, personal relationships, and reputation. Conversely, STIs are more easily hidden, and the perception that they are treatable or “curable” leads many young people to underestimate their severity. This fear gap may also be fueled by a lack of comprehensive sexual health education that provides balanced information on the risks of both pregnancy and STIs.

This episode unpacked these complex factors, shedding light on why pregnancy tends to be more feared than STIs and addressing the misconceptions that lead to risky behaviours. By exploring both societal pressures and health implications, the episode encourages young people to adopt a more holistic approach to sexual health.


Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Samuel, Hannatu, Jemima, Kenneth, Ransford, Charles, Francisca, Nii Narh, Prince and King James,
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Bad Feeling by Tulenkey &amp; Beeztrap Kotm
 Closing Music - Chorkor Special by Joey B


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Scared of Pregnancy, But Not STIs: What’s Behind This Fear?

Traditional gender roles and societal expectations significantly influence decisions related to sexual and reproductive health and rights (SRHR). In many societies, women are often expected to prioritise motherhood, chastity, and submission in relationships, while men are encouraged to embody dominance, avoid vulnerability, and take control of major decisions within households. These entrenched norms not only restrict individual autonomy but also create unequal power dynamics in relationships, affecting how people engage with contraception, family planning, and sexual health.

For women, societal pressures and fear of judgement may lead to secrecy in seeking contraception or reluctance to discuss their sexual health openly. Conversely, the expectation for men to act as the primary decision-makers can discourage them from participating in open communication about SRHR, leaving critical decisions about their own health and that of their partners uninformed. These dynamics perpetuate cycles of unmet SRHR needs, unintended pregnancies, and disparities in accessing healthcare.

This episode explored the influence of gender roles on SRHR, examining their impact on both men and women while highlighting the need for inclusive approaches that empower individuals to make informed, equitable choices about their health and relationships. By discussing challenges and strategies for change, the episode aims to inspire you to reflect on and challenge harmful societal norms.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Jemima, Margaret, Hannatu, Edmund, Kenneth, Enoch, and Jemaimah.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Ntsaase by Ben Brako
  Closing Music - Mmayewa by Juls, Twitch 4EVA &amp; Quamina Mp


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Gender Roles and SRHR: How Expectations Shape Our Choice

In today’s world, discussions around sex have become more open and accessible, yet the risks associated with unprotected sex, such as unintended pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), continue to affect young people worldwide. Despite increased awareness, many still underestimate or overlook the long-term consequences of unprotected sex, often due to a combination of misinformation, peer pressure, and the allure of immediate pleasure.
STIs remain a significant public health issue, with many infections going undiagnosed due to stigma and lack of awareness. These infections, when left untreated, can lead to serious health complications, including infertility, chronic pain, and increased susceptibility to other diseases. Additionally, unintended pregnancies bring challenges that impact educational and career opportunities, mental health, and financial stability. For young people, the perceived spontaneity and excitement of unprotected sex can sometimes cloud judgment, leading to choices that have lasting impacts.
This episode provides a balanced perspective, encouraging open, non-judgmental dialogue about why using protection is essential for sexual health. By exploring personal stories, expert advice, and myths surrounding contraception, the episode empowers listeners to make informed decisions about their sexual well-being.

Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Samuel, Hannatu, Jemima, Kenneth, Ransford, Charles, Francisca, Nii Narh, Prince and King James,
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Condom by Prince Bright (Buk Bak)
 Closing Music - PUFF PUFF by M.anifest, The Cavemen. &amp; Flea


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Unprotected Sex, Contraception and STIs: Is the Pleasure Really Worth the Risks?

With the rise of social media, young people today are constantly connected to a virtual world that shapes their views on love, sexuality, and self-worth. Platforms like Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and X offer endless content that showcases idealised versions of relationships, bodies, and lifestyles. This digital exposure has made it easier than ever to compare oneself to others, with studies showing that this constant exposure can negatively impact mental health, leading to anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem.

Social media has also reshaped how young people view relationships and intimacy. On one hand, platforms offer spaces for self-expression, connecting with others, and discussing topics once considered taboo, like sexuality and body positivity. On the other hand, these spaces can sometimes reinforce unrealistic standards; images are filtered, curated, and often designed to portray a “perfect” life, leaving young people with feelings of inadequacy when comparing themselves to these polished personas. Additionally, the prevalence of online dating and “swipe culture” has introduced new dynamics to relationships, where interactions can feel more disposable and emotionally distant, often affecting how young people perceive commitment and intimacy.
Moreover, the anonymity of social media allows for body shaming, cyberbullying, and other forms of digital harassment, all of which take a toll on mental health. Despite movements promoting body positivity and authenticity, it’s common for social media to fuel insecurities, particularly among young people who may be developing their self-identity. 

In this episode of the Curious Minds podcast, we delved into these issues, examining the good, the bad, and the complicated aspects of social media’s role in shaping mental health, love, and self-image. Through stories and insights, the discussion empowers young people to navigate social media in a way that prioritises mental well-being, authenticity, and self-respect.



Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Samuel, Hannatu, Jemima, Kenneth, Ransford, Charles, Francisca, Nii Narh and King James
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro - The Curious Ring


 Interlude Music - Wonderful by Baaba J
 Closing Music -  Sika by DJ Vyrusky ft. KiDi and King Paluta


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Love, Sex, and Mental Health in the Digital Age

For years, abstinence-only education has been promoted as the primary approach to teaching sexual health in many communities, focusing solely on avoiding sexual activity until marriage as the best way to prevent pregnancies and STIs. While this approach aims to reduce risky behaviours, studies show that abstinence-only education often leaves young people without the necessary tools and knowledge to make informed decisions about their sexual health. Without information on contraception, consent, STIs, and healthy relationships, young people may be left vulnerable, unprepared, and without resources for safe decision-making if they choose to become sexually active. This gap in knowledge can lead to higher rates of unintended pregnancies, STIs, and unhealthy relationship dynamics, as well as misconceptions about sexual health.
Comprehensive Sexual Education (CSE) offers a more holistic approach, addressing not only the biological aspects of sex but also critical topics like consent, healthy relationships, emotional well-being, contraception, and self-respect. CSE equips young people with age-appropriate, accurate information that empowers them to make informed, responsible choices about their bodies and relationships. Research has shown that CSE reduces risky behaviours, delays the onset of sexual activity, and promotes healthier attitudes toward sexuality and relationships.
This episode highlights the limitations of abstinence-only education and advocate for CSE as a necessary tool for fostering informed, confident, and safe individuals. By providing a balanced view of both approaches, pannelists emphasised the importance of equipping young people with the knowledge they need to navigate their sexual health responsibly and respectfully.
Host: Mavis Aryee
Panellists: Hannatu, Jemima, Kenneth, Ransford, Charles and Francisca.
Producer: Michael Tetteh Doku

Music

 Intro and Outro - The Curious Ring
 Bridge - Let's Start by Fela Kuti
 Interlude - Very Soon by Fameye


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Consent vs Coercion: Where Do the Lines Get Blurry?

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Beyond Condoms: When Does Sex Become Unsafe?

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Curious Minds Podcast

The Impact of Pornography on Sexual Expectations and Relationships

Curious Minds Podcast

Consent vs Coercion: Where Do the Lines Get Blurry?

Curious Minds Podcast

The Legality of Abortion in Ghana and the Scary Truth About Unsafe Abortions