IMPEDIMENTS TO CLEAVING -Exit Plan -Cleaving to the past -Cleaving to extended family -Cleaving to culture and belief systems -Cleaving to individualist or extended family religious doctrines -Cleaving to children of the marriage DIFFERENTIATED ROLES IN SHARED ASSIGNMENT -The Wife’s Charge (Ephesians 5:21–53) -The Husband's Charge (Ephesians 5:21–53) *The Fusion of The God Kind of Love * Ahava (Deuteronomy 7:7-8, Jeremiah 31:3) * Agape (Ephesians 5:25-27, Romans 5:8)